And why we shouldn’t resort to this, the image of a typical phycopathic ex-girlfriend.  Ask yourself why your even hear, the reason you found this webpage, you must have a strong feeling for  the man who’s just cheated on you, maybe he did it a while ago and you can’t get over it, or maybe your just curious, nontheless I’ll try and help you understand why men cheat and why it’s important to understand the mind of a man before we continue.

What is the real reason men cheat? Because their men? or is it something deeper? The age old myth IS true, if you ignore a man, he will want you more. If you are the “clingy” type he will get bored and move on, now be careful, a lot of women are clingy without realising it, so just keep that in mind before you skim over this and say to yourself your not. Now if I’m going to explain this right you need to keep one thing in mind.. to put it simply men are very primal, they have little to no control over there primal urges, very very little compared to women.

To keep a man with you. You need to make him think he’s still in the game, still chasing you, don’t ever let him get comfortable. KEEP HIM CHASING. This is the golden rule.

Ok, forget about everything for a moment, assume evolution is true. What is the only goal species?  – To survive right? and how do we as humans do this? we grow and learn through life, this changes our DNA ever so slightly every generation. The goal of a species is to reproduce, these are hard-coded into us, and men have little control of them. I’m sure if all men were being honest AT LEAST 90% of them would rather have more than one partner – if it was socially acceptable. This is what you have to remember.

Now the man won’t know this himself, maybe he won’t even admit it. But we have to agree – it’s hard coded into him. It’s trate we need to hold on to, the trate that let’s us evolve as a species, and how can we do this? Have as many partners as possible. Look at every creature in the animal kingdom – rarely do you see one which chooses one partner for life. Society has tried to change the laws of nature into something which is “socially acceptable”.

You want to know why he cheated on you? You’ll need to analyse his behaviour, before and after the cheating happened. Was he distant before? Has he confessed/is apologetic? and most importantly if he knows you know he cheated -  is he begging forgiveness, proclaiming it was a massive mistake?

To be 100% honest with you – If a man cheats, he’s not worth the time. You gotta get over him. Time is the greatest healer as we all know. The key is keeping yourself occupied, start a hobbie, start anything, heck even start gambling if that helps, you just need to get out and realise there are more men out there.. about 5% of which are genuinely nice and decent.